Think Like a Lawyer

What if the very qualities that make you an effective lawyer are limiting your success in business development, leadership, and career growth?

Lawyers are trained to identify risks, spot weaknesses in arguments, anticipate problems, and proceed cautiously. These skills are essential when serving clients. But they can also make it harder to build relationships, develop business, embrace new opportunities, delegate effectively, and market yourself with confidence.

That is the central premise of Think Like a Lawyer, Act Like an Entrepreneur.

In this practical and sometimes humorous guide, attorney coach Stephen Seckler shows lawyers how to retain the strengths of their legal training while adopting the mindset and habits that help entrepreneurs thrive.

If you think like a lawyer, this book will help you act like an entrepreneur.
About the Book

Why Stephen Seckler Wrote This Book

Although trained as a lawyer, Stephen Seckler has spent his own professional life helping lawyers build successful and satisfying careers.

He has worked in legal education, legal recruiting, and attorney coaching. After beginning his career in continuing legal education, where he learned from many of the pioneers in legal marketing, professional development, and law practice management, Steve spent more than 25 years as both a legal recruiter and attorney coach. In 2022, he stepped away from recruiting to focus exclusively on coaching lawyers.

Throughout that journey, he became a student of human behavior, drawing insights from psychology, leadership development, behavioral science, mindfulness, and career development. Those diverse influences shape both his coaching practice and the ideas presented in this book.

Steve didn’t write this book from the sidelines. As a lawyer himself, he spent much of his own career learning how to overcome his skepticism, pessimism, and risk aversion in order to build a business and create a career that was both successful and fulfilling. He brings that self-awareness to all of his coaching.

What You’ll Learn

  • Build authentic professional relationships
  • Develop a sustainable approach to business development
  • Become more visible and memorable
  • Strengthen referral networks
  • Overcome fear of self-promotion
  • Improve leadership effectiveness
  • Think more strategically about career growth
  • Develop a mindset that supports long-term success

Who Should Read This Book?

  • Lawyers who want to grow their practices
  • Associates preparing for partnership
  • Partners seeking to expand their referral networks
  • Lawyers who dislike traditional sales techniques
  • Attorneys considering a career transition
  • Legal professionals seeking greater career satisfaction
  • Lawyers interested in leadership development
Whether you are building a book of business, leading a team, contemplating a career change, or simply looking for a more effective way to navigate your professional life, this book provides practical guidance that can be applied immediately.

What Makes This Book Different?

Most books about legal marketing focus on tactics. Think Like a Lawyer, Act Like an Entrepreneur focuses on mindset as well as tactics.

The book explores how the habits of thought developed in law school and reinforced throughout legal practice can unintentionally interfere with business development and career advancement. By understanding those patterns, lawyers can make more intentional choices about how they build relationships, pursue opportunities, and manage their careers.

Rather than encouraging lawyers to become salespeople, the book helps them become more entrepreneurial, relationship-focused, and proactive while remaining true to their values.

What Readers Are Saying

While there are countless excellent books for lawyers (and I’ve written a few myself), this one stands out as the “fish out of water” guide to growth for attorneys. In this refreshingly honest and down-to-earth book, Steve shares personal life lessons and hard-earned wisdom to help lawyers avoid the pitfalls he encountered along the way. Steve’s candid insights make this book not just relatable but invaluable for any lawyer striving to build their book of business. If you’re uncomfortable with “selling legal services,” I wholeheartedly recommend this book …

- Steve Fretzin
President of BE THAT LAWYER with FRETZIN

… an essential field guide for attorneys attempting to get out of their own heads and unleash the business marketing dynamo within… It’s true that lawyers are trained to be risk-averse …. Of course, that’s not so great a quality to have as an entrepreneur; building a business, acquiring clients – it’s all fraught with risk, and coded for regular failures. In his book, Steve…relays how he overcame these built-in barriers, to make himself a successful entrepreneur – the same way you can…

- Jared D. Correia, Esq.
CEO | Red Cave Law Firm Consulting

This is the central insight behind Stephen Seckler’s book Think Like a Lawyer, Act Like an Entrepreneur, and it is one that every modern professional needs to hear…”The practitioners who thrive today are not only skilled technicians. They approach their practices with an entrepreneurial mindset that embraces opportunity, visibility, systems and growth.

- Susan Guthrie, Esq.
Founder and CEO, Guthrie Consulting & Media, Creator and Host of The Practice Playbook Podcast and the Divorce and Beyond Podcast

An excellent manual for attorneys seeking to improve client development. Seckler presents clear, actionable marketing ideas using humor and relatable stories to help lawyers take small, consistent steps toward big results.

- Kenneth A. Vercammen, Esq.

Beyond the Book

If the ideas in this book resonate with you, learn more about Steve’s coaching services for lawyers seeking support with business development, career transitions, leadership development, and professional growth.