Originating business requires the ability to look a prospect in the eye and confidently tell them that you can solve their legal problem. In sales parlance, you need to be able to “close” business if you want your practice to grow.
In order to close, however, you first need to learn how to “open up” conversations. You need to find out what problems your contacts are trying to solve (both in their businesses and in their personal lives) and you need to offer solutions. This only only happens when you approach relationship building in a very open ended way. For many lawyers I meet, this is very challenging. But the holiday season is a good time to practice.
The holiday season may not be the best time of the year to “close” legal work; but the month of December is a great time for relationship building. And since most legal work flows from good relationship building (whether it is with existing clients, prospective clients or referral sources), this is actually a great time of year for marketing. It is a time of year to cultivate and “open up” relationships.
For attorneys who do not consider themselves that social (and who thrive on having a full plate of legal work), December may feel downright depressing. If you fall into this category, you may be thinking a flurry of negative thoughts: I hate holiday parties. What am I supposed to talk about anyway? It’s hard to stay energized about marketing when I’m really slow. No one is going to retain me until after the New Year anyway.
With a different mindset, however, the holidays can give you an excuse to connect with people in your network. The holidays give you more opportunities to find ways that you can be helpful to your contacts. This in turn can help keep you “top of mind” with important prospects and referral sources.
So what are some good ways to “open up” conversations during the holidays. Here are a few tips:
You will not know what someone likes or needs until you ask. So this holiday season, do a lot of asking and you will undoubtedly learn about ways you can be helpful to the people in your network. This, in turn, will build your business relationships and over time, will give you more opportunities to be a solid “closer”.